Why I only date Black Women

What I have to say, may upset some and uplift others, either way I am just expressing my emotions and deep love for the Living Goddesses of the earth, The Black Woman!

Growing up in my small South Texas city, interracial dating and marriage wasn’t anything new, when it came to Hispanic and Caucasian relationships. The rarity came with interracial relationships, with African-Americans and Hispanics. This separation was propelled by gang violence, and cultural confusion. Any interaction or “god forbid” relationship, would be a cultural taboo, from both ethnicities. But it was this separation, that first intrigued me, I saw these beautiful Black angels and desperately wanted to be blessed by their presence. It wasn’t till I became older and began to act upon my desires, it was not always easy. Having to break social norms from both sides, but I am glad I did! I have made my mind and heart up, and two things I have sworn to do. 1. never ever date a single person from my race again; and 2. exclusively date these Beautiful Black angelic creatures from across the way. These are my reasons as to why, I only date the Black Goddess.


The physical attributes and attractiveness, are incomparable to anything I’ve experienced in my life. From her sun-kissed shades of soft silky brown to the mesmerizing deep indigo, the Black Woman’s tone stops me dead in my track and snatches my breath away. The way the she shines in the sun and contrasts in vibrant colors, no woman compares to the “head to toe”, deep enriched melaninated Queens. Her figure astonishingly voluptuous yet, physically fit. Her long strong legs, perfect feet and gorgeous naturally swaying booty, causes my temperature to rise and heart missing its beat. Her almond-round, brown eyes, deep with passion and love; catches my heart like a month to the flame. Her full soft lips, that every woman would die for, fill my dreams at night. The Black woman supersedes any woman I have been with, her beauty has lasted a thousand reigns, from the temples of Ma’at to the screens of fame, she walks amongst us. Never extinguishing her flame.


The Black woman’s beauty is amplified by her pure passion, dedication and perseverance creating an attractive persona of strong independence. Her goal-oriented life style(s) is evident in all aspects. From highest numbers of college graduates in minorities, to one of the most world traveling. This self-motivated drive and success unfortunately has been a type of effect, of the detrimental numbers of fatherless and male influences in the home. This lack of manly leadership and the black woman’s natural psychobiological strength has developed, an unstoppable beautiful force of life creating and destroying energy. The living Shiva! As our ancestors worshipped this symbol of duality in nature; So, shall man worship the physical embodiment of this deity, The Black woman!!


Nothing compliments this beauty and strength more than, the Black woman’s personality; never have I had such a deep connection to any other race or ethnicity. I feel as if I can, “be myself” fully, expressing my humorous goofy and “deep” sides simultaneously often becoming Best friends before anything; but at the same time the black woman keeps you sharp. Causing one to develop and advance intellectually, physically, culturally, and spiritually. This may be due to her God-like nature!


This powerful yet delicate sweet flower, encompasses all what a man can desire! Sexy, determined, intelligent, beautiful and loyal! Not only is the Black woman a living Goddess, but a loyal and supportive influence. She will have your back when times are rough or when your life is in danger, she will face fear head on with passion and fire in her eyes! When becoming the leader, a man should be! The Black Woman would, willing follow and support your every move, and gladly take the role of a Woman! Therefore, it is not the Woman’s issue if she is demanding of you to become something and/or someone, it is our faults my brothers! We beg for a living walking Goddess; but complain when she wants you to be the God of yall’s Domain. It is up to us to love, cherish, protect, worship and care for these Living Shivas.

14 thoughts on “Why I only date Black Women

    1. I really appreciate you words. I hope more people read it, I don’t need to be worshiped respected as any other woman equally is all I ask.


  1. I cant even describe how i felt reading this on instagram and Again your blog and watching the video..Such strong words my brown king of truth and passion..your Queen is one of wonderfullness i can see and what u emphasize is true love and greatness..#swirlife#mixedlove#hmbw..i habe nothing but love for my latino men they are my heartbeat..thank you for this post.


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